How to Plan a Beautiful San Antonio Elopement (That Still Feels Like a Wedding)
Gone are the days when eloping meant running off without a single soul knowing. Today’s elopements are intimate, intentional, and full of personality—and we absolutely love them.
As a San Antonio elopement photographer, I’ve had the honor of capturing backyard “I dos,” downtown courthouse vows, Hill Country hikes, and sweet moments between couples who just wanted something simple and beautiful.
If you’re planning an elopement in San Antonio, here’s how to make it unforgettable—and still feel like a real wedding.
📝 1. Make It Official: Marriage License & Legal Steps
Even if you're keeping things simple, you’ll still need to follow the legal process:
- Apply in-person at any Bexar County Clerk's Office (bring ID)
- There’s a 72-hour waiting period before you can marry, so plan ahead
- The license is valid for 90 days
- You’ll need an officiant—this can be a judge, religious leader, or ordained friend
- Once you’ve signed the license, return it to the clerk’s office for filing
💡 Pro Tip: The San Antonio Courthouse offers same-day ceremonies—just make an appointment.
🌇 2. Choose a Location That Reflects You
One of the best parts of eloping? You can go anywhere. Here are some ideas:
🏛 Courthouse Vibes
- Bexar County Courthouse (classic red-brick architecture)
- Justice of the Peace locations around the city
🌿 Nature + Scenic Spots
- San Antonio Botanical Garden
- Japanese Tea Garden
- Brackenridge Park
- Cibolo Nature Center (near Boerne)
- The Missions (UNESCO heritage sites—gorgeous at golden hour!)
🏙 Urban + Unique
- Pearl District
- King William Historic District
- Ivy Hall or The Gardens at West Green for a “venue feel” without the big guest list
You don’t need a huge venue to make it feel special—just great light, your favorite person, and a photographer who knows how to tell your story.
👗 3. Dress Up However You Want
Elopements are the perfect time to break the rules. Some couples wear traditional wedding attire; others go for something more relaxed. We've photographed brides in:
- Chic white jumpsuits
- Short vintage lace dresses
- Cathedral veils in nature preserves
- Heels, boots, or barefoot in the grass
Do what makes you feel confident, beautiful, and you.
🕊 4. Don’t Skip the “Wedding” Moments
Just because you’re eloping doesn’t mean you can’t still include emotional traditions:
- First looks
- Prayer together before vows
- Private vow readings
- Champagne toast
- Cutting a small cake
- Writing letters to read later
- Bring a speaker for a slow dance in the park
These are the moments that make it feel like a wedding, even if the guest count is two.
📸 5. Hire an Elopement Photographer You Trust
Your wedding photos are your memories. Whether you’re saying vows on a hilltop or inside a chapel, those quiet moments matter.
A great San Antonio elopement photographer will help you:
- Plan your timeline
- Scout lighting and locations
- Capture documentary-style moments and details
- Make you feel comfortable and confident
Many couples think elopements don’t need photography—but this is still your wedding day. You deserve to remember it all.
🎉 6. Celebrate Your Way
After your elopement, you can:
- Host a casual dinner with family
- Send out “We Eloped!” announcements
- Have a reception months later
- Go on your honeymoon and celebrate in peace
- Or just soak in the day together, privately
Whatever you do, remember—this day is about your love. No pressure, no expectations.
Final Thoughts
Eloping doesn’t mean skipping the magic. In fact, many couples say their elopement was more emotional, personal, and stress-free than they ever imagined.
If you're looking for a San Antonio elopement photographer who can help you plan, guide, and capture every detail with care, we'd love to walk alongside you.
Want help planning your elopement?
Contact us here and let’s talk dates, locations, and dreamy photo ideas.
FAQs
Q: How do I legally elope in San Antonio?
A: Apply for your license at the Bexar County Clerk's Office, wait 72 hours, then have a ceremony with an officiant and return your signed license.
Q: How far in advance should I plan my elopement?
A: At least 1–2 weeks to secure your marriage license, photographer, and any vendors (like hair, makeup, or florals).
Q: Can I still wear a wedding dress for my elopement?
A: Absolutely! You can go full glam, casual-chic, or anything in between. There are no rules.
Q: What’s the best time of day for elopement photos?
A: Golden hour (1–2 hours before sunset) offers the dreamiest light. Mornings also work well for peaceful outdoor settings.
Q: How many hours of photography do I need for an elopement?
A: Most couples book 1–3 hours depending on the location, any getting ready moments, and photo goals.
Q: Where should we elope in San Antonio?
A: Some favorites: San Antonio Botanical Garden, The Missions, Japanese Tea Garden, or even your backyard with string lights!
Q: Do I need a permit to elope in a park or garden?
A: Some locations (like the Botanical Garden) may require a photo or ceremony permit. We can help you find out what’s needed.
Q: Can we include family or friends in our elopement?
A: Yes! You can invite just your parents, kids, or a few close people. It’s your day.
Q: Can we still do things like a first dance or cake cutting?
A: Yes—and we love capturing those moments! Just because it’s small doesn’t mean it isn’t special.
Q: How do I book an elopement photographer in San Antonio?
A: Just fill out our contact form and we’ll guide you through everything you need.
